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Never Give Up: It’s not a trait, it’s an attitude

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When we face any tough situation in our life, we always curse that situation. Actually we are afraid from the failure and can not accept the failure. If we start anything new, we leave it just after one or two failures. But when we see any person around us, who is keep on trying then we tell that this person has some special quality. 

Success is never be an easy fruit, it requires a lot of effort and hard work. It is similar that when you rope one seed, you can not expect fruit in very next day, it will take its own time. We need to plant it, watered it, take care of it, then it will be ready to give us fruit. If we take example of many successful people around us, we find that taking initiative is courage but continue with that initiative is bigger courage. There are many people who are very good in initiative but failed to sustain with that. The reason is very simple, fear of failure or they feel that if they continue, they might fail again.

If we take example of Sachin Tendulkar, who was once in a situation, where he was suffered from Back Injury and Tennis Elbow issues. He was 33 years, earned enough money but then too he never wanted to end his career because of health issue. He went to basics and tried very hard, finally he got the place back in Indian team and lifted World Cup in 2011, his ultimate dream. He is known as “God of Cricket”. Similarly if we take example of Amitabh Bachchan, he is second name of Never Give Up. He started his journey with struggle, but after featured in 100 movies, he started again at the age of 58 years. He went to basics and asked for work to producers and directors. He featured in Television first time through “Kaun Banega Crorepati”(Who will be Millionaire?). He has been known as “Mahanayak of the Century“. 

Many people say that Sachin Tendulkar or Amitabh Bachchan are special people. They have special trait which everyone does not have. Yes they have God gifted talent but never give up is not their trait, it’s an attitude towards their dream. If you strongly dream for something, if you are determined for it then definitely God would be enforced to fulfill that.

We used to enforce “Never Give Up” to our kids, like if they fail in one standard, we are asking to appear it again, Why? Because we know that if he/she keeps on trying, success will come. Then why don’t we implement the same on ourselves. We should understand that talent can be God gifted but “Never Give up” is not a trait, it’s an Attitude.

 

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This topic gives you insight of people who got success in their life and when they are not able to retain their success, they lost, but again, Regain their confidence and come back strongly and become more successful than earlier. The examples around the world will give you strength as well as direction to become successful. What should you do when you are feeling low. Also I will share my experience that how did I come out from few toughest phase of my life. I know that I am not that much famous person on the earth but definition of success is different for every individual. For few folks settle down in abroad is success, for few, known to millions is success and for few to make one person smile everyday is success.

Highs and Lows are the part of life, if it’s not there then life would be very boring. Failure is important to taste the feeling of success. Bad is the one who gives importance to good. So don’t be afraid from lows or bad phase of life. Remember one thing, nothing is permanent in this life. I remember famous dialogue of Late Rajesh Khanna jiChahte, Shohrate, Ulfate, kuch bhi hamesha rehta nahi, Aaj jahan main hun, kal waha koi aur tha, yeh bhi ek daur hai, woh bhi ek daur tha” (Nothing is permanent in life, whatever you are today, somebody else was there, this is also an era, that was also an era). I strongly believe in these words. If you take the example of Sports, Lala Amarnath to Virat Kohli, era is changing and we got new players for every decade.

But there are few players who really got lot of respect, Sachin Tendulkar (God of Cricket), Sourav Ganguly (Dada of Cricket) and  my favorite Yuvraaj Singh (The fighter of cricket). You know why these players are the most respected ones because they showed how to reach 0 to 100. They know the Mantra to reach 0 to 100. They are not afraid from 100 to 0 because of Success Mantra they have.

If you take the example of Film industry, enormous actors, actress who came back strongly, but above them all Mr. Amitabh Bachhan. He had big loss in 90s but came back strongly and now he is financially/Mentally very strong. Still performing and entertaining us. Although there are many other actor/actress but Amitabh Bachhan is known as “Mahanayak of the Century”.

The life of mine is also like roller coaster, I have started my life so many times from zero.That is why I am not very much worried from challenges but my family do.  The life taught me a lot. I took inspiration from our PM Narendra Modi. our sportsperson, our business kings/queens, and top of that our women. If you see your mother, wife, daughter you feel that how strong and how multitasking they are. 

You might watched Women Cricket World Cup 2017. There is one player from winning team, Sarah Taylor. Very few know about her but she is the one who was going through mental problem 1 year ago. I read that she had gone through mental treatment. I am surprised to see her in Women World Cup 2017 where she won many games for her team England and played very important role in winning the title.

If you ask me the mantra of success, I say that whenever you are feeling down or dejected, when you feel that nobody cares for you, nobody loves you, that should be. Because nobody wants to talk with the dejected or sad person. Now how to make yourself  motivated, go back to your life, find out the moments when you were top of the world, when everybody appraising you, when you were surrounded with love and affection. Just pluck those memories from your life, play them. You will feel good. It might help you to bring back positive attitude. Before loving anyone else, first love yourself. It does not mean to be selfish but don’t do those things which hurt you or made you to compromise with your values. Once you start loving yourself, you will want to win again, live again, love again.  Just try it once.

Watch this video from famous movie Bhaag Milkha Bhaag

“Life is very beautiful, just change your perspective to see it”